Allium Counseling Blog
The Importance of Self-Compassion in Changing Your Relationship with Food During Eating Disorder Recovery
Recovering from an eating disorder is a journey that takes courage, strength, and patience. At Allium Counseling, we know that one of the most challenging parts of this process is learning to rebuild a positive, balanced relationship with food. This often means challenging longstanding beliefs, routines, and fears tied to the eating disorder—steps that can …
How to Cope with Anxiety Symptoms Without Taking a Sick Day
If you struggle with anxiety, you may know that it oftentimes shows up at inconvenient times, like when you’re trying to get ready for a busy day or when getting ready for work. So, how can you navigate these symptoms without having to cancel your plans or taking a sick day from work? First, let’s …
Considering Therapy? Here’s Why It’s Important for Men with Eating Disorders
Understanding the Challenge Eating disorders are often perceived as issues that primarily affect women, but the reality is that men are also vulnerable. Whether it’s anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, or avoidant restrictive food intake disorder, these conditions can have severe physical and emotional impacts on men, just as they do on women. Unfortunately, societal …
Navigating Your Body Image During Chicagoland’s Summer Months
Navigating body image during summer months in can be challenging, especially with increased exposure while wearing weather-appropriate clothing, social events, and other pressures. Here are some strategies that we recommend: 1. Shift Focus Away from Appearance: 2. Use Body-Positive Affirmations: 3. Avoid Comparisons: 4. Choose Comfortable Clothing: 5. Maintain a Balanced Routine: 6. Seek Support: …
13 Tips to Stay Energized and Motivated During Winter Break
Maintaining energy and motivation during winter break can be a challenge, as it’s a time when you may be tempted to relax and unwind completely. Here are some tips to help you stay energized and motivated: 1. Set Realistic Goals: Outline achievable goals for the break, both personal and academic. This could include reading a …
How to Say I’m Sorry: Apologizing vs. Over-Apologizing
Apologizing is an important social and interpersonal skill when it’s genuinely warranted, and it plays an important role in maintaining healthy relationships and promoting effective communication. However, excessive apologizing can diminish the sincerity of your apologies, undermine your self-confidence, and potentially annoy or confuse those you interact with. The main difference between apologizing and over-apologizing …
Handling Mistakes with Grace
Making a mistake is a common part of being human, and it’s important to remember that everyone makes mistakes from time to time. Instead of beating yourself up over a mistake, consider these healthier ways to respond: 1. Acknowledge the mistake: Recognize and accept that you’ve made a mistake. Avoid denying or deflecting responsibility, as …